Valuable advice to those who hide their bi-side from their partners.


I thought I will share my story and hopefully motivate someone to experience what I am experiencing in my life...

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I thought I will share my story and hopefully motivate someone to experience what I am experiencing in my life...

A Bit about myself... I am 39 years old, been married to an amazing wife for more than 16 years now... The day we got married, I thought I knew what love is... today... love is not strong enough to even try and explain what I feel for my wife!! Yes like many relationships, we have our ups-and-downs. About 6 years ago after the birth of our second child, was a snowball effect that resulted in me having a 3yr dry streak, handed a hall pass to cheat and barely speaking to each other. Then we just both had enough and 3 options were laid down... 1) we get a divorce (Against my belief and on my wedding day, I said "divorce is not an option, death is" 2) Have an open relationship just so that we don't impact the kids 3) get our act together and fix this! So we started to work on us and one evening about 3 years ago I thought... "I have never cheated on her, what have I got to lose than to open up completely and share the things most men will never do" And that was it...

I remember handing her a list that started 'This is my sexual fantasies... I want to experience it and would love for you to be part of this journey' With about 16 points that range from visiting a swingers club, having a threesome to me wanting to experience a blowjob from a guy and also giving a blowjob and feeling what it is like making a guy orgasm... For a while, there was no talk about it until she agreed that she loves me so much that she wants me to experience each one of them... Many of my fantasies have realised even though there is now about 50 new ones is there one experience that stands out... My first time going down on a guy...

I understand why insecure couples can get so jealous... what do you compete with when it comes to same-sex relationships? If a girl cheats her husband with another guy, you can do something to compete with him... but same-sex there is something the other doesn't have... (Hope that makes sense) ALTHOUGH I believe that if there is trust, communication and understanding of the difference between sex and making love... a lot can be achieved... so much that when I gave my first bj, I actually stopped to see who between my wife and his was moaning this loud... it was mine!!

Most men would rather fck-around that open up to their partners, thanks to society and its stereotypes... but if you just include your partner in what you want to experience and be 100% honest... you could have something most people will never experience with a partner!!

And my wish for each couple is to have what we have! We will go buy lingerie for each other, play wing-man for the other, share anything and everything, give oral sex together when we have a play partner and love has just no meaning when it comes to what we feel for each other thanks to honesty that resulted in trust and respect!!!

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